Libido Killer: Partner Problems.
Having personal problems with one’s partner is up there among the top sex-drive killers.
For women, feeling close or loved is a major part of desire.
Both sexes should watch for fallout from fights and arguments and also try to avoid poor communication. There are other ways sex-drive can be reduced like when one of the partners is feeling betrayed and other trust issues.
If you find it hard to get the engines revving, you should try contacting a couples counsellor.